The Adult Learner

Thoughts on the adult learner, and how to balance life… at work… at home… while continuing your education as a nontraditional student.

The Adult Learner

CAN’T TEACH AN OLD DOG?

Do you think you’re too old to start something new?

Do you think college is only for the young?

If so…you are wrong!

One of our proudest graduates last year on the Chattanooga campus was 75 years old and an honor student! In our adult programs at Belhaven, our students range in age from 21 to 75! The average age of our adult students is in the 30s.

A friend once said to me, “I’m too old to go back to school for two years. Why, I would be 44 year old when I finish!”

My response to her was, “And how old will you be if you don’t???”

No matter your age, there will be other students like you in our classes.

What are you waiting for? You’re never to old to learn!

 

 

Easter; a time of renewal

This year, March 20th marked the calendar date for a New Season.  Spring is a time of new beginnings; new leaves are emerging from the trees, plants are budding with the anticipation of flowers, and there is the fresh smell of new grass in the air. A warm breeze awakens us to the new season.

On March 31, we celebrated Easter.  We honored Christ, who rose from the grave offering us eternal life and forgiveness of sin.  With His new glorified body, heralding a promise that we can experience a new life in him, we were given a fresh beginning.  Paul reminds us that “. . . if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold new things have come” (2 Cor. 5:17).

But even as we celebrate, our hearts are heavy with the realization that much is wrong with our world. Unrelenting hatred seems to rule supreme in the hearts and lives of so many and the fruits of terror are all too evident.  There are diseases for which we have no cures. There are problems in the home. Children are being abused. People are sleeping on the streets.  Our soldiers are dying for unexplainable reasons.  If you watch and listen for very long, you can be filled with despair.  But Jesus said, “I have come to bring you life, and that more abundantly, to show you how to live, to bring you hope and joy and peace and love, to give you a reason for living.”

Let us be transformed this year in our hearts and in our mindset. For when we do we will have awesome and incredibly Godly changes take place in our lives.  Let renewal be a way of life; not a one time or once in a while event. Let us find purpose and direction and meaning in life, in all that we do.

“… put on the new self . . .” (Eph. 4:24).

You never know what might be going on behind the scene in the lives of people we interact with.  This week, I complimented a Belhaven student on her new hair cut.  This working mom, on her way to class, decided to stop and tell me a story.  Unlike traditional students, an adult leaner does not have the ability to put their live on hold while attending school.  They have to juggle work and family while trying to maintain good grades.  For this student, juggling also included caring for her mom who was recently diagnosed with breast cancer.  Her hair cut was a commitment she made to grow together with her mom as she fights the disease.

 

In times when we are faced with adversity, it is easy to give up.  But the God who began a good work in us will equip us to finish strong.  It is by His power that we overcome.  Stories like this inspire us to persevere.  This is one of the many stories of students who will not let circumstances delay their dreams of completing their degree.

A New Year

It’s January and with every New Year comes New Year’s resolutions.  Some decide to lose weight, attend church services regularly or even save money but, all in all most resolutions are used to improve one’s self.  Many of you have decided that getting your degree is your resolution.  What better way to start your New Year off than by furthering your education.  Education is the gateway to success and opportunity.  Although statics show that most people break these resolutions by mid year, we must resolve in our minds to finish what we start.   Isaiah 40:30-31 tells us that “Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint”.

As an adult learner there will be times when you may feel overwhelmed because of finances, work, and family but remember God is our provider and shall supply all our needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:19).

Wishing you a Happy New Year!  Continue to examine the past and renew your future with education.

December Graduation

Last Thursday evening, I was privileged to read Psalm 8 at our Chattanooga Adult and Graduate Studies campus graduation. This psalm offers a beautiful study in contrasts – the majestic God (Oh Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth) presented as “mindful” of a seemingly insignificant creation (What is man that you are mindful of him?). In addition, this scripture reminds us that this majestic God has given us a role (dominion) in His creation. Majesty, significance, dominion…what wonderful words to speak to graduates and their families.

I wasn’t sure that I would like a December graduation. I’ve always associated graduation with the bright colors and sweet fragrances of spring. Spring represents new life – kind of like graduation. I could find no graduation analogies in the deep darkness of winter, until…

I walked into the church. The contrast between the darkness on the outside and the warm soft light of Christmas on the inside was overwhelming! Candles in the windows, garland on the banisters, happy voices glad to be inside out of the dark cold. The warmest, brightest, greenest day in spring would pale in comparison to this scene. I found myself not wanting to leave the church. If spring graduation is a sending out, surely December graduation is a gathering in. The reality, I suppose, is that graduation is a wonderful event whenever it is experienced, but I’m definitely a December convert.

Graduates leave, you know. That’s the purpose of the university experience. They come to go. So, last Thursday evening, after gathering them in, we sent them away. For me, it’s a great comfort knowing that we’re sending them away equipped. Our graduates are adult learners who are poised to make a difference in their work organizations, communities, churches, and families. Not only have we exposed them to rigorous academics, they now have a clearer picture of what a Christian worldview is and how to apply it in everyday life.

Does that matter? Indeed it does. The graduates who left the bright warmth of the church on Thursday evening found themselves facing a cold, dark world in which a gunman murdered the most innocent and defenseless among us. Much like what happened after 911, our graduates will find themselves responding to questions from their coworkers, neighbors, and, of course, families. They will find a world whose view of life and God has been shaken to the core. Who better or more prepared to help others through this difficult time than our graduates? Our world needs the comfort and direction that a biblical worldview offers…our world needs our graduates.

So, if you’re a graduate reading this post, congratulations! One journey is over, and another is beginning. May you find purpose in the significance and purpose that God has given you, and may you wrap yourself in the warmth of the majesty of our great God (remember, it’s cold outside).

The Burden of Your Calling

Jesus doesn’t mince words when he talks about our responsibilities as his followers – “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23 ESV).

I finally figured out that the reason this verse has never really bothered me is because I’ve never really understood it. There’s so much here that blows right over my head…come after Christ, deny myself, take up my cross. Really? How does that work?

Until yesterday. That is, it wasn’t until yesterday that I began to understand it. Okay, at least part of it. As I read the verse, the phrase “take up your cross daily” began to resonate. What does the cross mean within this context? Among other things, it seems to me that the cross represents two things (at least): It was Christ’s burden, but it was also a symbol of his calling to bring salvation to his people through his sacrificial death.

We don’t have to look too far in scripture to sense the burden of Christ’s calling. He agonized in Gethsemane; great drops of blood fell from his face as he contemplated what was about to happen to him. He cried “My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?” “I’m thirsty.” “It is finished.”

It’s beginning to make sense to me now. Jesus asks me to take up my cross daily. I have a calling. The question I now find myself asking is to what extent do I feel the burden of my calling? When was the last time I agonized over my role as a father, an employee, or a member of my community? Quick prayers said on the drive to work or shallow have-a-nice-day devotionals do not reflect a life that feels the burden of a calling. Rather, I’ve come to realize that the “burdened” life requires sacrificial prayer, extensive time in God’s word, and love-motivated obedience to the one who called me.

If you’re reading this blog, you have a calling as well. Your primary calling is the calling to become a follower of Christ through repentance and belief in the good news of the gospel. Beyond that, there’s the calling to serve him in the various spheres of life in which you find yourself (family, work, church, community – just to name a few). For our students on Belhaven University’s adult campuses, they’ve realized that completing an undergraduate or graduate degree represents God’s calling to prepare them for leadership usually in, but not limited to, their workplaces. If God is calling you to serve him as an adult university student, we can help! Many of our staff members have been adult (non-traditional) students and know the balancing act that must take place for adults to successfully complete their education.

I’ve resolved not to take my calling lightly any more, and I hope that’s your resolution as well. I want to experience the burden of my calling each day as Christ has asked me to. To do anything less is to trivialize a role that the Creator-God of this universe has given me.

Season for Change?

September is a month of transition…the hot days of summer begin to cool down…the colors of nature begin to change to a new and vibrant palette…fall is in the air…and the season of autumn officially arrives on September 22.

Transition…change…transformation…can be a wonderful thing! Is it time for a transition in your life? Do you want to make a positive change for yourself and for those around you? What if you were to be transformed into a person with more confidence, more knowledge, more understanding? Would that change your life?

I’ve been working in adult education for over 20 years, with Covenant College and now Belhaven University. I have seen hundreds of transformations during those years…people who literally changed their lives by adding Christian education and earning a degree to their life experience. Here are a few examples of amazing transformations I have witnessed:

  • The young man who was the first in his family to earn a college degree and was then able to fulfill his dream of a professional position helping children of divorce
  • Single moms who were able to get better jobs to support themselves and their children
  • Employees who had been passed over for promotions because they didn’t have a degree and who received promotions and raises after finishing their degrees…some even before finishing
  • The dad whose children were in high school, and he wanted to finish his college degree before they did, and he succeeded
  • The woman who had a dream and started her own business when she finished her degree
  • Parents who wanted to be role models for their children and show them the value of education
  • The 75-year-old woman who wanted to complete what she started many years ago and graduated last May…you’re never too old!
  • Veterans and current military students, some getting higher ranks with their degrees
  • People dissatisfied with their jobs, wanting to change careers, and doing so with a degree
  • Dads and moms wanting better lives for their families
  • The student who was extremely afraid of public speaking when she began classes but gained confidence and became a public relations spokesperson for a large corporation after graduation
  • Students who had tremendous growth in their faith, some totally amazing!
  • And the list could go on and on…

Are you like any of them, or do you have your own special situation? Do you want change in your life? Would you like to be transformed? Belhaven University is an institution where you can discover your place, your purpose.

To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.    (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

Is this your season for change?

Returning to College

The good news for students who have put their education on hold is that we have made  the readmission process a painless one. In many cases, while returning to college may seem like a far-off possibility, it’s pretty straightforward to put a student back on track toward meeting their academic goals.

At Belhaven University, we know that working adults are also concerned about fitting academics into a lifestyle that’s already busy with family and/or work. For this reason, we utilize student services staff that specializes in planning course schedules that fit into your life. This balance ensures that adult learners have a workable course load that also gives them the education that will unlock new earning and job opportunities.

Anyone who is interested is welcome to attend our Lunch and Learn on September 6, 2012 to find out more about our Graduate Programs.  Please be sure to RSVP by Friday, Tuesday, September 2, 2012. You can do so by visiting www.jackson@belhaven.edu .  We will be happy to speak with you regarding our degree programs.

Remembering Independence Day

Many of us look forward to July with festive anticipation in having a day off to
spend with friends and family. It is a time for grilling, laughing, and
enjoying the night light up with fireworks. Sometimes it is easy to take this
freedom to enjoy life for granted and forget that it came at a steep price. The
first successful settlers to this great land were refugees from religious
persecution. They were fleeing the tyranny of those who felt threatened by
their beliefs in Christ. They desired freedom to worship, to pray, to live a
lifestyle in which they could follow Christ as their conscience dictated.

 

As
these early beginnings transitioned into a growing and prosperous nation,
tyranny once again stepped in to oppress and to dominate. Our founding fathers
said enough, and together signed the Declaration of Independence, a declaration
to King George that they would no longer live under his tyranny. Thomas
Jefferson stated boldly “And for the support of this declaration, with a firm
reliance on the protection of divine providence, we mutually pledge to each
other our lives, our fortunes, and our sacred honor.”  Jefferson
authored this declaration that reflected the collective belief that “We hold
these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are
endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are
life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.”  Many of the original
co-signers lost their lives and fortunes, but none lost their honor. It is in
their memory that we celebrate our independence and the inheritance of freedom
and liberty.

 

The Declaration
of Independence and the Constitution that followed reflects the studious
efforts of those committed to bettering their lives through lifelong learning.
The vision that emerged and the ability to articulate their dedication to
freedom in a manner that revolutionized not only the colonies but the world
that followed was made possible through educated minds and
strong spirits.

 

Belhaven
is committed to supporting adults desiring to improve their lives and the world
around them by investing in an education that will prepare them for their
calling in the workplace and their ministry to Christ. A  staff of
dedicated professionals is standing by to support new students
transition back to school.  They can answer any questions about
which of the eleven undergraduate or graduate programs would be the best
choice. They are also here to serve students in the process of
admissions including transferring transcripts and qualifying
for financial aid.

 

The
need for higher education has not changed since the days of our founding
fathers and is still vital to meet the challenges of a
changing world. Contact us now to find out how you can get started at Belhaven
University!

Take and Give

 

A couple of weeks ago, Belhaven University’s Chattanooga campus experienced its first commencement exercise. Dr. Niel Nielson, president of sister institution Covenant College, gave a challenging exhortation to our graduates to pursue their callings. It was the type of evening that those of us in the field of education live for.

I’m the director of admission at Belhaven’s Chattanooga adult and graduate studies campus; I’m also an adjunct faculty member. Among other things, this means that I get to know our students at the beginning, during, and at the end of their college experience. It’s my role as a teacher, however, that allows me to interact with our students in an up-close-and personal way.

As working adults and college students, their lives, for the most part, have become exercises in calculated chaos. I’m thinking of a single mother who writes a ten-page research paper while putting the kids to bed – with Good Night Moon in one hand and her marketing text in the other. And then there’s a dad who works two jobs to support his family but somehow finds the time to return to school and pursue his college degree. Ask him why, he’ll tell you that he does it for his family…to be an example for his kids as well as to increase his income. I see students struggle with family members’ illnesses, the loss of jobs, and many other types of personal struggles too numerous to name. As a teacher, I’m also privileged to experience the joys of the adult college experience – getting to know people in their diversity, learning to work together on a project, sharing in their “I can do this” moments.

At this year’s graduation, I spoke to a young lady who had started her journey toward a college degree several years ago. I can remember the day that she came to our campus to talk about returning to school. There were a series of starts and stops, and, to be honest, I wondered if she would make it. But there she was…a smile, a hug, a thank you, a college degree. Graduation – I love it.

Why do adults return to school to earn their college degrees? In the field of adult education, this is a well researched question. There are a lot of answers, but the way I see it, the foundational answer is found somewhere in the process of “take and give.” Here’s what I mean…

In a previous post, I referred to Jesus’ story about the rich fool and his disciples’ reaction to it (Luke 12). It appears to me that this story pushed Jesus’ followers way outside their comfort zones. The problem was that the rich man used the fruits of his success to ensure an easy and care-free life. The lesson for his disciples (and us) was that they should not take comfort in their plans for personal security; rather, they should trust God for everything – even for things like food and clothing. Predictability and security were no longer to be part of life’s strategic plan. Rather, they were things to be taken by God and replaced with something much better.

To be more specific, Jesus had taken away his follower’s need to find security in material things and replaced it with security that is only found in his kingdom…”Do not fear little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom (Luke 12:32, NKJV). The principle here is that Jesus takes from us before he gives to us. Think about it. Before anything worthy of the kingdom takes place in our lives, Jesus has to take away those things that will ultimately hinder experiencing his kingdom…a process of take and give.

For our students who would call themselves Christ-followers, they will tell you that their return to college represents a divine calling. As they pursue their callings into the classroom, they find that many of life’s activities have been taken – sacrifices made – in order that they may experience the joys of God’s provision during the process of earning their degrees. It’s not an easy lesson to learn, but our students will tell you that it is a very rewarding process. After all, there’s freedom in knowing that God will meet our needs – right down to what we eat and wear. However, the “knowing” comes only as a result of God’s taking – a trial exchanged for a kingdom …sacrifice exchanged for, in the case of our students, graduation.

As I spoke with my just graduated applicant/student/friend, it was obvious that she learned this lesson. Perhaps something as wonderful as graduation is a taste of kingdom victory – a reward for trusting God totally and submitting to his process of “take and give.”

 

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