Things are rarely as they seem to be, in fact, sometimes they are RADICALLY different! So, when confronted by challenging circumstances, or people, Avoid knee-jerk reactions and snap decisions until you have a better understanding of the situation.   When you make a knee-jerk reaction or decision (emergencies excepted) it will almost always have some negative ramifications.  Take a few moments to breathe; if necessary disengage or dampen your emotions so you can think.  See the video below for more…